Learning how to dive

By Brendan Murray

Three people. One uncertain future.

A play by award-winning writer Brendan Murray about love, lies, loss and what comes next.

Damn Cheek’s multi-award-nominated production of Brendan Murray’s Learning How To Dive returns to theatres in autumn 2026.

“Pure theatre at its absolute best. An awesome night. – ★★★★★ – London Theatre1’s 5-star review

Where and when

Thursday 22 October 2026, 7.30pm
Peace Cottage, Hoddesdon
55 Lord St, Hoddesdon EN11 8NA (get directions)
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Friday 23 October 2026 at 7.30pm
Oddfellows Hall, Dorking (part of Mole Valley Arts Alive)
270 High Street, Dorking RH4 1QT (get directions)
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Sat 24 October 2026, 7.30pm
Lantern Theatre, Brighton
77 St James’s Street, Brighton BN2 1PA (get directions)

Sun 25 October 2026, 5pm
Lantern Theatre, Brighton
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Tickets cost £14 to £18.

About the show

What do you say when you answer the door to a man you’ve never met before?

Especially when you’ve known him for 30 years?

Where do you start? Where does it end?

And how about discovering your husband of 50 years is not who you thought he was? What then?

By turns tense and tender, Learning How to Dive tells the story of 3 people and the shared loss they find themselves facing.

Praise from the show’s first run

Damn Cheek first performed Learning How to Dive at the White Bear Theatre in Kennington in February 2026.

London Pub Theatres Standing Ovation Nom

“Plunges the audience into immediate intrigue” – ★★★★★ – Theatre Weekly’s 5-star review

“Pure theatre at its absolute best. An awesome night. – ★★★★★ – London Theatre1’s 5-star review

“Much more than a work of fiction. – ★★★★★ – Pride FM

“Moving, uncomfortable, and funny.” – ★★★★★ – BecomeUnmuted’s 5-star review

“Redolent of Alan Bennett or Victoria Wood. – ★★★★½ – The Reviews Hub’s 4.5-star review

“A thought provoking and very well done play – ★★★★½ – Familes Who Love Theatre

“A story that knows how to find beauty in difficult moments – ★★★★ – London Theatre Review’s 4-star review

“Nuanced, sensitive, lyrical – ★★★★ – London Pub Theatres Magazine’s 4-star review

“Moving and quietly uplifting” – ★★★★ – Everything Theatre’s 4-star review

Focussed, and assured – ★★★★ – theatre-news.com’s 4-star review

As heartbreaking as it is charming – ★★★★ – Jack The Lad’s 4-star review

Every word and action has been chosen carefully – ★★★★ – Lost in Theatreland’s 4-star review

Listen to a short interview about the play with writer and performer Brendan Murray:

Learning How to Dive poster

Team

Learning How to Dive is written by multi-award-winning playwright Brendan Murray, described by The Guardian as “one of the country’s most compassionate dramatists”. Brendan’s awards include The Writers’ Guild of Great Britain Award for Best Play for Children & Young People.

Directed by Willie Elliott, the show also stars Damn Cheek Co-Artistic Directors Darren Cheek and Karen Spicer.

Brendan Murray

Writer and Performer

Brendan Murray

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Willie Elliott

Director and Audio Describer

Willie Elliott

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Darren Cheek

Performer

Darren Cheek

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Karen Spicer

Performer

Karen Spicer

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Mandy Fraser

BSL Interpreter

Mandy Fraser

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Darwill Bren

Set, Sound and Lighting Design

Our partners

We’re delighted to be partnering with Hallmark Catering Equipment Hire for Learning How to Dive. Their generosity and support for this production is very much appreciated.

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We’re also grateful for the support of Mole Valley Arts Alive.

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